Not to say I'm master in this topic.It is because I came from a broken family and have no brother or sister.I read a lot of parenting and relationship books.
Family is really important to everyone.Sometimes we kids don't value it much because we always see them around.Imagine they are no longer around.It will be a nightmare for you.When you grow up with parents always argue and fight,have no love from parents(work,break up,and etc),the boy(that's me) will always suffer loneliness and heartache. Value your parents when you have them. Value your brother and sister if you have them. They are Family. I wish I have one but unluckily I don't have. I have a dream to have a big and nice family of my own.
Wanted to thank my good brother's Benjamin for bring back me from the darkness. If he wasn't there, I might be doing things I'm not proud of today. I can imagine how dark I can become.
Relationship is a part of life. So I'm talking about Boy/Girl Relationship. Is really wide and interesting topic to talk about. First advice from me, make it clean and pure. Trust one another because you love one another. I read a lot of Christian Relationship books. It talk about a lot of things. From Trusting God to Walking together with God. The books talk wisdom in relationship. As my Pastor say it bound to have a lot of problem if your relationship is base on feelings. Yes I read a lot of psychology books as well and feelings do change quite often.
Let's take my story as an example: Chermaine and I know only for 2 weeks and start dating already. Shock right? It shock myself and I fall sick on the first week we dated. We keep on contact with each other. A lot happiness in the beginning. Is a truly unforgettable experience. I don't care about her past or mistake that she did. Everyone bound to do mistake in life and no one is perfect. One of my happiness moment with her was walking in the park holding hands and taking pictures. Both of us base on this relationship on feelings. Trouble comes after that day. Both of us suffer a lot of stress. And end up breaking up. Who am I to judge her on this? Yes I do suffer a lot of heartache, headache, depression and more. So the story say that feelings can change just like the wind.
That's why so many relationship fail in this world. I don't think is true that guys is born flower hearted. I know I'm not. You can see yourself. I don't want to explain. I know a lot of my brothers is not too.
I know a lot of boys who are handsome become gay and I know a lot of girls who are cute/pretty become les because of bad relationship. Broke Family is also come from bad relationship. I feel really sorry for them. Is also one of the reason why I study psychology.
Choose with wisdom. Never look back. Always support one another. Trusting one each other. Always have a goal and dreams. Love your partner no matter what happen. It will always have good and bad time. Never give up in trouble times. See ya..
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Hey Guys.I'm back to write long post and meaningful one.I been writing quite a lot of negative story and post.Am going to write one really interesting and life changing one.
What is Leadership to me?
There is a lot of meaning in this word. Attitude will be the most important key in Leadership.
What create a good attitude?
A good and healthy habit. Habit will turn out to be our lifestyle. To be a good leader. He/She must have a good and healthy lifestyle. Love things that you have in Life. That's what God have provide for you now. God must have your Trust before He gave you the nations. And Trust is not easy to earn. You must be trustworthy to be a great leader.
Where does trust come from?
It come from oneself. Trust is not easy to earn back or to be earn. Once lost, it will take a really long time to get back.
Ethics is also important in Life. Who would follow a person who have no ethics in life? Each great and famous company got one simple thing call The Code of Ethics. Follow it and you will never go wrong.
If you want to ask me a question if our emotions come in our way.
Is okay to be emotional. We are only human. There is always things happen in our life. The strongest can fall too. Keep your faith together and keep on moving. Don't stay where you are now. Life is unfair sometimes but we have no choice but to live it right? So live it with a smile at your face. Everything will be just fine at the end.
I'm a boy who have big dreams. I fail a thousands times and I still moving on. There is always failure in Life. The person who give up is the real failure. Keep on moving and You will be successful in Life. The most important dream in life and out stand all the rest is have a Big and Happy Family(Complete Family). The reason why I'm sad and depress for so long since the day because is like my no.1 dream have be crush. So I need time to repair and stand up. I'm only human.
I got dreams to save nations. To help the poor and save the sick. People are dying everyday and Rich people are getting richer. If everyone think the same like me, the resources that we have is more than enough for every single person in this world. I need millions and billions to do that. I will work hard and smart to get to that level. I will be the one who hold billions and say I'm not like you so selfish and have everything to yourself. Sharing is Caring. I believe that God will provide for me. The wealth, wisdom, strength, knowledge, ability, talent, people, love and more.
Dare to dream Big Dream. God won't help people who don't dare to move. Example: You don't climb the mountain, how would you reach to the top? Is the same meaning. You have to move and face challenge in life. I had my most stressful one last few months that seriously bring me down to the floor. I'm on my feet and walking towards my future.
Will continue with more after I get some good rest and sleep. Wisdom is unlimited. It will keep on coming. One more word: We are unique in our way. We are best in our field. We have great Talent from God. God give us 2 choice. Use it or Leave it? Your choice is always your choice. Remember we are not an accident. We are here for a purpose. You are reading this for a purpose as well. There is no accident in life. Create your own future! A brighter and greater future. See ya..
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JC (Jason Chong)
Really tired for the past few weeks..
My face always darker than black when exam come..
As I hate exam..
Tomorrow is my final paper tat is College Algebra with Application..
After tomorrow is my Sem break..
I can go do things that I truly enjoy..
To do list for next month:
*Hit my sales target..
*Exercise and eat more..
*Go out and meet people..
*Hang out with friends..
*Relax..
*Write more..
*Have fun..
I been having high level stress since the day..
My black eye is getting thicker each and everyday..
Soon I will need make up to cover it..
LoLx..
My head is quite blank now..
So I will write some other day..
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Jason
Now I ask myself..
Have I turn cold??..
Heartless??..
Painless??..
Some close to me will only know my past..
How many time I got stab straight into my heart??..
The pain is too much to handle for a normal boy..
I prefer the pain on the outside than the inside..
How many scar I had in my body??..
Is quite a lot even my chest got like a knife slash scar..
I have grow up with quite a lot of bitterness..
Because I can still feel the scars I have in my heart..
As I accept Christ,God have show me love and guide me..
I slowly grow from bitterness boy to a person that love others..
I starting to help others..
Learn from leaders..
Study harder..
Be a better person..
As I know a lot of friends who seriously suffer in relationship..
And news show a lot of things to me about this topic..
I find it really interesting and really want to help those kind of people..
If my mom and dad relationship is good,my life wouldn't be like this..
So is like my passion in life to research and study about this topic..
I have read a lot of relationship books..
Mostly related to God..
I have some wisdom from books and people about relationship..
I have train myself to be quite a self control person..
A lot better than last time..
My 1st girlfriend happen this year April..
To tell you the truth..
I'm really happy to have someone to love and trust me..
I value her really highly..
And put my extra time on her..
As I know her past..
I feel really sorry for her and want to heal her heart with my time and love..
That's why I put a lot of afford on her..
I dream to have a great family in the future with her..
I plan a lot of things because she is my 1st gf..
Problem arise in our shoes..
Both of us suffer a lot of stress..
I can't blame her for giving up on me..
She break up with me..
I feel really terrible..
Really emotional..
I can't control my thinking,attitude and behavior..
I did and say a lot of stupid stuff..
I feel sorry and depress over this..
After a month,college had started..
I have already forgive and forget her..
But my emotion is still unstable..
A lot of things I don't want to say and a lot of things I don't want to remember..
This has cause another scar in my heart..
As now is the beginning of July..
I'm quite in control of myself..
But I can't feel any happiness around me anymore..
Now what I'm chasing is my own Happiness..
I will continue chasing my Dreams..
Will not let this incident effect my whole life..
I will take this incident as a life experience..
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Jason Chong
Once you get hurt,you will have a scar..
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The scar will always remind you not to try it again because you don't want to hurt again..
The boy will become a player,gay,insecure,lifeless,depression,mental affected or more..
The girl will become a player,lesbian,insecure,lifeless,depression,mental affected or more..
Worse come to worse,they will become psycho..
Not only that,they might kill themselves because the pain they have is too much to handle..
The lucky one will take quite a time to become normal again or they will stay like that until the end of time..
^_^
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Jason
Continue reading if you want to know why I write this title!!
I'm resting and watching a TVB show!!
Is really must watch show!!
This show reminds me a lot of things..
Remind me a lot of sad and unhappy thing if you know what I mean..
This show call The Mysteries of Love..
This is the 2 scene that both of them break up..
I lazy to explain each and every single detail about the story..
Have to watch the show to know the story la..
My love story and their love story are quite similar..
Have the same love and same problem..
You must watch from the beginning until the end..
I love the ending part..
^_^
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Jason Chong
Sorry guys for not updating..
Almost 2 months since we break up already..
I had a really tough time last month..
Had a really major depression because of the break up..
I can't sleep and eat..
Drop a lot of hair..
Really emotional..
Can't listen to some songs..
I forgotten how many time I cry(Like the rain from the sky)..
I'm not afraid to cry because even our Lord and Saviour's Jesus Christ cried..
I hate to cry in front of people so I struggle a lot since the break up..
Even my favorite show,I don't dare to watch..
A lot of places brings me only more depression..
So I choose to stay at home..
I choose to keep it to myself and act like nothing have happen..
Just to make my friends and family happy..
Now currently normal la..
I forgotten a lot of things..
I choose to move on..
I know God will send me the one that fit me best..
Past will always be the past!!
I will take it as an experience..
^_^
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Jason
